I started
writing this with anger, inadequate anger. Today morning I woke up to see a fb
feed from a cousin as a part of her writing “ A
bike drove past us. Before I realized what had happened the guys on the bike
got away. One of them grabbed my breast”. I was astonished by her guts
putting this in black and white and in a social platform. That feed I read
was constantly effecting my meetings and my work. Now, I have to keep the work
aside and start typing here in this blog.
Ages back,
The place we today live is all animals of different species types, small, big,
clever, cruel, intelligent etc and humans never existed then. It took ages and
centuries for animals to evolve to humans and remember all the ones you see
around today may not be Human but a WILD ANIMAL in human skin out there, so its
always YOU versus the UNKNOWN wild animal in dark that will ripple you one day.
Physically and socially weak you girls are its soft targets. These attacks
differs on which animal he inherits. It has nothing to do with the dress you
were, or the perfume you spray.
If anyone
say, he is provoked by your dress, physical appearance, curves, breasts or bums
, then the only solution is to ban the fucking clothes and become damn fat. So
all the world can roam naked with all sizes and different variety bums, tummys,
dicks and tits. And at some point we all walk naked and Once everything becomes
a norm he has nothing to explore or exploit. Then its all naked men and women
he sees every day and may not have any wicked fantasies or wild thoughts.
Okay enough
about this animal, but what about us ? when such things happening around. I
know, We have 2 choices . one is to hide your face and act as if nothing happened, the other is to record the scene and share it on the social platform and then act, shout, resist,
hashtags. The end result is, we are increasing the count of such videos and at
some point we quickly forget the incident because its not US or OUR family, few
ppl around enjoys these videos you share, they will enjoy the visual treats of
exploiting by satisfying the animal in them.
The biggest
problem is none speaks, in other words we as a society never gave that freedom
to express these issues. We a fucking sheep, will wait for someone to come
out of the flock and then we follow the hashtags, candles. I am much
specific about the word “Society” it is not HE or HER or THEM , it is all us
and we are that assholes. Did you ever wonder why you always hear such things
happen to your friends daughter or your neighbor sister or your colleague
wife? But never to your family? .Its because you are either a bastard or a
bitch who never cultivated the right atmosphere allowing them to share such things in the family, I bet atleast 99% girls face this exploitation at some point,
this includes my wife, sister, mother and yours too.
When such
things happens, the convenient way is to blame the victim.. ”You should have
avoided that route” “you should have took your bro” “You should have not worn
that deep neck” and guys don’t be stupid in saying these are the root causes. If these are the root causes can
you guarantee me that no rapes and molestation happen if the women are fully
and loosely covered? Do you think these thinks stops ?.
Isnt the
ANIMAL that is the rootcause?
Why don’t our discussion be the animal on how to identify it? How to tame it?
How to hunt it? .Now don’t fire stupid questions like “How do we know they
attack” “who are they”…etc.We today say, we are super humans studying
about mars, putting rockets in space, hyperloops..but don’t you think we
just need a fraction of that interest or technology to start addressing these
heavily emotional issues.
I know we
are Humans and offcourse the selfish ones. We are okay as long as the animal is
on the roads and looking for others, until it knocks our door. Remember dude, once it knocks your
door all you have to do is to offer your Wife, Sister or your Mother and later
forget that moment. Don't feel safe or relaxed saying I have no women home, it may grab your balls.
Atleast
react when that happens infront of you, try to approach the victim, if possible
reciprocate atmost you get a slap, kick or blow which can be erased easily when
compared to the wound they leave on a victim.
