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This one is the most frequently updated columns in my profile..Its not that I keep changing..but that I discover more of me with time... Sometimes I kind of get lost in my thghts in the world which I call my own...while ppl get lost in territories unknown to them ! Its not that I run away from reality...but isnt the wrld in dreams a better choice? I live a happy and hassle free life.Reason-I have a bad memory Confusion has been a constant companion in my life...to the extent that I love being confused..:-) Talking about love..I love myself, I love the ones who hates me..and also love the ones who doesnt know me because its costs me nthng.... :-)Thats how I am nd canot be changed..I am not evrythng I wish I could be but I am everything I need to be.I am just me and I like it that way..:)I don't take life too seriously, nobody gets out alive.Sochti hi jyada,Kam main samjti huan...Dil kuch kehta hain,kuch aur he karti huan.. I have realized...Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of luck.I am Me. In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me.Evrythng that comes out of me is authentically mine, because I alone chose it

Monday, February 8, 2010

L"U" V

This is a Intresting topic...Might not be for your guys..but for me...I am not trying to define this word or give a meaning of this word. I will keep my experiences and leave every thing to your assumptions..derive what ever you can. At the end I am damm sure you will relate ur self with me at some point when you start reading the below

When I was into my 10th standard..I used to like a girl in the same class of mine. I was in fact mad about her and I named this feeling LUV..but I came to know some where down the realation she is a sister of mine ...but my feeling towards her never changed but this time this piscesian is cleaver enough and never conveyed this to any one because he knew that he will get belted if he tells it to some one. Now If I ask myself if it is really LUV? my genuine ans would be "NO" and I name that feeling as "LUST".

Most of the time we often confuse between the words(rather than calling words I call them feelings)"LUV" and "LUST". Its a human tendency to react towards the opposite sex when you find them attractive or good enough..and now we should name that feeling in a very posh way so that it can be shared across or communicated across.....because if you go to somebody and say I have a LUST on her..its sounds a bit odd and even hard so people around you would loose their impression on you...Just to avoid all these nonsense MODERN WORLD started using the word LUV...At the starting of this paragraph I said we confuse between LUV and LUST but it isn't the case...we know what we meant and what our feeling is ... but we knowingly overrite the word LUST with LUV in todays world to defend ourselfes. Funniest part is children from their preprimary started using this..Now please dont ask me whatz that feeling, is it LUST or LUV? you go bang your head get the answer and let me know. But I call that as LUST (coz its a kind of  reaction responding to opposite sex, lust should not be a negative word) than LUV coz they dont know what LUV is.....even I dont know the meaning of LUV till date.. but to me it is a "matured thought"

luv to me is a genuine feel or confidence that you give him/her stating "u r more than me". Its a promise of giving and not expecting. Its a concept of understanding and not complaining. Its about effection not a pretending action, finally its life time mutual agreement ,not a days deal.

Before ending this post..let me post you a quote that I read some where..."LUV doesnt exist without LUST "..I dont know if you agree but I belive 

--Chandu




4 comments:

  1. Interesting post.. Though i have lot of points to disagree... We can discuss offline :)

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  2. Hi Satish,

    I missed one point here...here thw word "Luv" I am not talking about some thing related to our family and parents stuff...so feel free to comment online ra...if I could agree I will else I will make my point even clear.....so cool :) start commenting mate...no offline stufff...

    Thanks

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  3. Hi ra Chandu....well said n I agree with all ur points which u have mentioned.....
    "LUV doesnt exist without LUST" liked this point very much....keep posting Dude....good to c...

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  4. Now forget all.. tell em who is this girl in 10th....... wanna know this for sureeeeeeeeeee....kill you if u dont tell me...

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